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I left my religion. Should I still raise my kid with it?

Your Mileage May Vary is an advice column offering you a new framework for thinking through your ethical dilemmas and philosophical questions. This unconventional column is based on value pluralism — the idea that each of us has multiple values that are equally valid but that often conflict with each other. Here is a Vox reader’s question, condensed and edited for clarity.

I was raised evangelical Christian and was very devout until my 20s, when I moved away from religion. Now I don’t believe in the Christian dogmas I was raised with. But I think being raised that way did give me something very valuable — a scaffolding for spirituality and morality. It allowed me to develop values like kindness and charity, to help others even when it’s not convenient. 

Now, I’m pregnant with my first child, and I’m worried that I don’t know how to instill morality in a kid if they don’t have a scaffolding for it. Should I raise my child as a Christian even though I don’t actually believe in Christianity anymore, and just let the kid figure it out over time? Or can you get the positive effects of being raised in a religion without actually being raised in a religion? 

Dear Spiritually Scaffolded,

First, can I just say: I feel you! This dilemma hits very close to home for me, as someone who was raised in Orthodox Judaism, no longer identifies as Orthodox, but still finds lots to value in the religious tradition. So the answer I’m going to give you is supported by research — we’ll talk history, psychology, and philosophy — but also personal experience. 

To put my cards on the table: I do not believe you need religion to live a moral life. I’m sure you know this, too, because if you think about all your friends and colleagues, you’ll probably find that a bunch of them are very good, kind people who were raised secular. They are all existence proofs that a person can be good without God.

And that’s the basic premise of a movement known as humanism. Its roots stretch all the way back to the ancient Greeks, who emphasized the role of human rationality in figuring out how to lead a good and flourishing life. But by the Middle Ages, Greek philosophical texts had become largely unavailable to European Christians, who believed that humans were too wretched to find the good without a supernatural deity.

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When translations of Greek texts flooded into Europe in the 14th and 15th centuries, the effects were transformative: The Renaissance was born. From scholars to popes, people gained an appreciation for the human body and mind, a pride that’s reflected in the art of the period (think Michelangelo’s “David”). They didn’t toss away Christian faith, but they started valuing both faith and reason, and developed more confidence in the ability of humans to figure out the truth and improve the world through science.

Modern humanism includes both “religious humanists” and “secular humanists.” The former are generally nontheistic — they reject the idea of a God who intervenes in human affairs — but they still draw inspiration from the wisdom of religious rituals and texts and from the structure of congregational life. Many Unitarian Universalists fit in this category, for example. They wouldn’t say you need Jesus to save you, but they’ll happily meet in a church for a morally uplifting sermon and songs. 

Then there are the secular humanists, who are staunchly religiously unaffiliated; think of people like Salman Rushdie or Steven Pinker, and the 28 percent of Americans today who describe themselves as atheist, agnostic, or “nothing in particular.” 

These two broad paths are both valid options for you to consider. What unites them is a belief that you can be “good without God.”

Although there is some data to suggest that religion helps promote prosocial behavior, like generosity toward strangers, we also know that religious ideas and institutions have sometimes facilitated violence against certain groups. And the evidence on prosocial behavior is actually pretty mixed when you take a closer look. 

The association between religiosity and prosociality seems to depend a lot on how those things are being measured. If you measure religiosity by simple belief in God or self-identification as religious, you won’t find it a strong predictor of moral action. But examine people’s behavior right after they’ve engaged in concrete religious practices (like prayer) and you find that they do tend to show more prosociality, likely because the practices evoke moral emotions. 

So religious practice might be an effective technology for cultivating morality. But it’s not the only one! Psychologists have found that we can still be moral without religion — if we set up the conditions to regularly and effectively trigger moral emotions. 

One of those emotions is what they call elevation. It’s that uplifting feeling of inspiration you get upon hearing about someone who did something you consider really noble, whether it’s Mahatma Gandhi leading nonviolent civil disobedience or Susan B. Anthony campaigning for women’s rights. Feeling elevation moves us to want to act nobly, too — it nudges us to moral action. 

Another such emotion is awe. It’s a feeling people often get in nature, when faced with towering mountains or a starry night sky. By reminding you that you’re a tiny speck in the universe, it shifts you away from focusing on yourself and your own problems. You move into what psychologists call the “small self” mindset — and that, it turns out, facilitates feeling more connected to others and acting more virtuously. 

A third emotion is gratitude. When you feel grateful for all that you’ve been gifted, your attention naturally turns to the source of those gifts. Very often, that source is other people. Research shows that eliciting gratitude doesn’t only make you want to return the favor to those who’ve directly contributed to your well-being — it also makes you want to be generous to people in general.

So here’s what I’d suggest for you: As your kid grows up, find regular ways to use elevation, awe, and gratitude to build their moral character. Of course, you’re not limited to just these three, but I think they’ll offer a great starter scaffold. 

What does this look like in practice? For triggering elevation, make use of all the awesome children’s books about admirable people, both real and imagined. One of my friends who was raised secular credits Miss Rumphius, in which the protagonist travels the world and plants flowers everywhere she goes, with teaching her to be both fiercely independent and fiercely committed to doing good. I’m partial to what I call “the first woman to” books — whether they’re about the first woman to discover a pulsar or the first woman to become a rabbi! I also recommend checking out this cool collection of spiritual exemplars from around the globe.

For awe, you can engage in dedicated activities, like going on camping trips that include lots of hiking and stargazing. But let’s be real: You’re going to be busy. So, think about ways to fold awe into the small spaces of daily living, like the walk home from school. According to a study published in the journal Emotion, “awe walks” — weekly 15-minute walks outdoors where you’re encouraged to notice a gorgeous sunset, a giant spider web, or anything that makes you go “whoa!” — can effectively foster the “small self” mindset.

As for triggering gratitude, you can make a practice of regularly writing thank you cards with your kid. You can also express thanks for your food before starting a meal — like the prayers many religious people say before eating, but without any mention of God. Research shows that prayer successfully elicits gratitude in kids, whether they’re mentally thanking a higher power, teacher, or friend.

Practices like that will feel familiar from your religious upbringing; your project now is to retrofit them in ways that ring true to you. Yes, that’ll require some effort, but it’s worth it in your case because sticking to prefabricated, off-the-shelf religion would come with a serious downside.

C. Thi Nguyen, a philosopher at the University of Utah, has a term I absolutely love for that downside: “value capture.” That’s what happens when a technology presents you with a certain method for doing things, and you adopt that method as a stand-in for your actual values. Think: obsessively racking up a high step count on Fitbit instead of figuring out how you can enhance your health holistically. Using a prefab method like that has the advantage of convenience, but Nguyen reminds us that outsourcing our decision-making to it will yield an oversimplified or warped version of our values. 

In this case, the technology is religion, to which many people outsource all their moral thinking. But you can create a more bespoke scaffold that supports the virtues and ideas you actually believe in. In doing that, you’ll be honoring the value of intellectual honesty while also honoring the value of effectively building moral character in your kiddo. 

I want to offer a caveat, though. Prefab religion comes with a major pro: Unlike a Fitbit, it’s a technology that’s been debugged over millennia. Its rituals have been fine-tuned and time-tested to respond to human needs. As the psychologist David DeSteno documents in his book How God Works, these rituals contain deep insights into those needs and how to meet them effectively. 

Often that’s by pushing us to do something that we don’t feel like doing but that’d probably be good for us. When grieving the death of my father, for example, I didn’t feel like having tons of people over and talking about him, but the Jewish ritual of shiva would have forced me to do just that. It surrounds you with community at a time when you might want aloneness but need togetherness. I wish I’d reaped its benefits.

When we go bespoke on our spirituality, we can inadvertently end up with something that feels thin, partly because it strips out lineage. And this is where I think the religious humanists have a leg up on secular humanists: While they do retrofit their faith so it’s aligned with their current beliefs, they also maintain whatever lineage they can. 

That allows them to benefit from a tradition that demands things of them that they might not do if left to their own devices — like spending a lot of time in community (something religion is great at but modern society often fails at) and periodically disconnecting from technology (the Sabbath being the original digital detox). It also allows them to maintain a felt connection with their ancestors and the aesthetic beauty of the songs and customs unique to their background. 

So even as you build your own scaffolding, try to keep an eye out for old materials that may be worth incorporating. You don’t have to entirely reinvent the wheel. And you don’t have to cede the realm of spirituality or even of religion to the dogmas you encountered in your childhood community. It’s as much yours as it is theirs. I wish you the confidence to take ownership of it, to be creative with it, and yes, to subvert it in community with people who make your vision of moral life come alive for you and your kid. 

Bonus: What I’m reading

  • Intellectual humility is usually hailed as a virtue, but in this Aeon essay, philosopher Rachel Fraser makes an unexpected argument against it by drawing on the case of geneticist Barbara McClintock, who relentlessly pursued her ideas even though her peers probably saw her as a crank. 
  • Okay, this one isn’t so much what I’m reading as what I’m listening to, but: DeSteno’s podcast How God Works has a great episode on “growing the moral muscle” in childhood, which informed some of my thinking in this column. Listen to the voices of little kiddos talking about what they think God wants of them!  

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Complacency, like a virus, moves quickly across borders.The temptation of pessimism is real. In the face of what feels like an endless war and an onslaught of propaganda, it is easier just to accept the idea of decline. But let’s remember what’s at stake, what the Ukrainians are fighting for: a society, like ours, where independent courts protect people from arbitrary violence; where the rights to thought, speech, and assembly are guaranteed; where citizens are free to engage in public life and are not frightened of the consequences; where security is guaranteed by a broad alliance of democracies and prosperity is anchored by the European Union.Autocrats like the Russian president hate all of these principles because they threaten their power. Independent judges can hold rulers to account. A free press can expose high-level corruption. A political system that empowers citizens allows them to change their leaders. International organizations can enforce the rule of law. That is why the propagandists of autocratic regimes will do what they can to undermine the language of liberalism and the institutions that guard our freedoms, to mock them and to belittle them, inside their own countries and in ours as well.Supporters of Ukraine are now asking Germany to provide weapons to be used against Russia, an aggressive military power. The true lesson of German history is not that Germans should never fight but that Germans have a special responsibility to stand up and take risks for freedom. All of us in the democratic world, not just Germans, have been trained to be critical and skeptical of our own leaders and of our own societies, so it can feel awkward when we are asked to defend our most fundamental principles. But we can’t let skepticism decline into nihilism.In the face of an ugly, aggressive dictatorship in Europe, we in the democratic world are natural comrades. Our principles and ideals, and the alliances we have built around them, are our most powerful weapons. We must act upon our shared beliefs—that the future can be better; the war can be won; that authoritarianism can be defeated once again; that freedom is possible, and that true peace is possible, on this continent and around the world.
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A new poll found that 24% of Gen Zers used neck or back pain as an excuse to skip work this year, while only 14% of Baby Boomers did the same.
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Cher says her two divorces were ‘easier’ than getting into Rock & Roll Hall of Fame
Cher gave a passionate speech as she was finally inducted into the Rock & Roll Hall of Fame.
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American Paul Whelan gives first interview since being freed from Russian prison
Paul Whelan, a Marine veteran who was imprisoned in a Russian labor camp for nearly six years until being released after a prisoner swap this summer, tells "Face the Nation with Margaret Brennan" in his first interview since being freed about the first moments he realized he was free.
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Yankees World Series cap revealed as fans line up early for merch drop at the Stadium
Yankees fans didn't waste any time getting their hands on World Series merchandise.
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Rapper Trick Trick Endorses Trump at Michigan Rally: 'We Make Detroit Great Again!'
The influential rapper and hip-hop legend known as Trick Trick endorsed former President Donald Trump at a recent rally in the swing state of Michigan, making him the latest rap star to express support for Trump. The post Rapper Trick Trick Endorses Trump at Michigan Rally: ‘We Make Detroit Great Again!’ appeared first on Breitbart.
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Fanatics Sportsbook Promo: Start 10-day $1,000 No Sweat Bet offer on Jets-Steelers, any sport
Sign up with the Fanatics Sportsbook promo to bet on the New York Jets vs. the Pittsburgh Steelers on Sunday. Once you sign, you can start claiming a $100 bet match for 10 straight days.
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Mets vs. Dodgers Game 6 prediction: NLCS odds, picks, best bets
With the Mets still facing elimination, they’ll send arguably their best pitcher, Sean Manaea, to the mound for Game 6 on Sunday night.
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Charlamagne tha God: Tim Walz Isn't 'Garbage ... I Just Don't See the Impact'
Left-wing radio host Charlamagne tha God reacted to Vice President Kamala Harris choosing Minnesota Gov. Tim Walz (D) as her running mate, saying, "I don't see the impact." The post Charlamagne tha God: Tim Walz Isn’t ‘Garbage … I Just Don’t See the Impact’ appeared first on Breitbart.
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Harris tells Black churchgoers people must show compassion in their daily lives
The Democratic nominee’s visit to New Birth Missionary Baptist Church in Stonecrest was part of a campaign encouraging Black churchgoers to vote.
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Graham says Israel has window to 'replace Hamas forever' after Sinwar killing: 'Door is now open'
Sen. Lindsey Graham, R-S.C., said Israel-Saudi Arabia normalization after the killing of Oct. 7 mastermind Yahya Sinwar could "replace Hamas forever."
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Climate Doomer Lizzo Rants Before Boarding Private Jet to Kamala Harris Rally: 'You Hoes Couldn't Even Spell Democracy'
Pop star Lizzo posted a video of herself over the weekend boarding a private jet on her way to campaign for Kamala Harris -- an incongruous and hypocritical image since both Lizzo and Kamala Harris have promoted climate change activism. The post Climate Doomer Lizzo Rants Before Boarding Private Jet to Kamala Harris Rally: ‘You Hoes Couldn’t Even Spell Democracy’ appeared first on Breitbart.
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Tommy Paul se consagra en Estocolmo para su tercer título del año
Tommy Paul completó una semana dominante al proclamarse el domingo campeón del Abierto de Estocolmo por segunda vez.
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Harris campaign abandons Biden in final weeks before Election Day: report
President Biden and Vice President Harris reportedly have no plans to appear together on the campaign trail in the final weeks before Election Day.
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Asistencia de Giuliano Simeone lleva al Atlético a victoria ante Leganés
Giuliano Simeone protagonizó una heroica asistencia en el tramo final y Alexander Sorloth firmó un doblete para que el Atlético de Madrid le diera la vuelta al marcador y vencer el domingo 3-1 a Leganés en la Liga española.
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U.S. investigating leak of classified documents on Israel's attack plans
The documents, which are marked top secret, were posted to the Telegram messaging app.
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Bigsby anota par de touchdowns, Jaguars derrotan a Patriots
Tank Bigsby acarreó el balón para 118 yardas y dos touchdowns y Parker Washington devolvió 96 yardas un despeje para una anotación, con lo que los Jaguars de Jacksonville voltearon el marcador al vencer el domingo 32-16 a los Patriots de Nueva Inglaterra en el Estadio Wembley.
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The truth about why we get ‘hangry’ —and the 5 best foods to keep you full
Let’s look into the science of why your stomach growling can turn into you growling, and how you can keep your inner beast at bay.
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